Finding Your Happily Ever After
By Steph Wallace, Library Assistant 2, Adult Services
While families across Manhattan and beyond are gearing up for back-to-school season, my fiancé and I are preparing for the biggest event of our lives to date: our wedding. Naturally, as an avid reader of romance and romantasy, I’ve been reading many books with marriage plots and books about creating real life happiness whenever I’m not working on my own happily ever after.
The most recent title that mirrors my current feelings is “Tea You At The Altar” by Rebecca Thorne. The third book in the romantasy “Tomes and Tea” series follows Kianthe and Reyna as they prepare for their own upcoming wedding while also hunting down missing dragon eggs and overthrowing a corrupt queen. Though the sapphic couple struggles with their professional roles as the Mage of Ages and Queendom guard turned tea shop owner, their love for each other never falters. It is this commitment to each other that inspires me to follow their example. I’m eagerly awaiting the continuation of their story in “Alchemy and a Cup of Tea,” which will be published on August 12, 2025.
What would the romance genre be without the “marriage of convenience” trope? India Holton runs with this idea and kicks it up with an extra dose of humor in “The Geographer’s Map to Romance,” the second of her “Love’s Academic” series. This title focuses on side characters from “The Ornithologist’s Field Guide to Love,” the Professors Tarrant – that is, Elodie née Hughes and Gabriel Tarrant, who are both experts in thaumaturgic geography. As storm-chasing tourists are turned into cows and innkeepers consistently fail to have more than one bed available, the rockily married couple are forced to reconcile their mutual mixed feelings for each other to tame the unnatural disasters plaguing England and Wales. It takes all of their combined cunning, hex skills, and a bag of magical items to find the truth, evade their foes, and break the enchantment. And if one mystery isn’t enough, their adventures continue in “A Tangle of Time,” which will be published in September.
Want a marriage plot without a lot of romance? Check out “I Want to be a Wall” by Honami Shirono. The third and final volume of this manga neatly ties up the slice-of-life story between Yuriko and Gakurouta, an asexual woman and a closeted gay man. After getting married to stave off attempts by their parents to arrange partners for them, the couple’s relationship transcends romance as they learn what it means to live together as platonic partners. Equal parts touching and hilarious, their story validates the lives of people who value nontraditional partnerships.
For the people watching other people getting married or struggling with their own marriages, Alison Espach’s “The Wedding People” could offer some catharsis. This New York Times bestseller satire stars recently divorced Phoebe Stone, a woman with plans to take her life at a ritzy seaside resort, only to be mistaken for one of the guests of bridezilla Lila’s wedding. The two women seem to have nothing in common, and yet they manage to build a friendship that surprises both of them.
If you’re more interested in nonfiction books about marriage, pick up “I Do (I Think): Conversations About Modern Marriage” by Allison Raskin. This series of essays explores what marriage means today for millennials and Gen Zers, two demographics with new approaches towards lifelong commitments. The essays include Raskin’s life experiences as well as expert research. “I Do (I Think)” also covers topics such as prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, division or unification of finances, non-monogamous and LGBTQ relationships, intimacy, and a fresh perspective on divorce. For anyone who wants to broaden their understanding of how people create, sustain, or peaceably end relationships, this book is a must-read.
If you couldn’t care less about holy matrimony but you’re still looking to rebalance the relationships in your life, this next book might be for you. “Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do (and More Life to Live)” by Eve Rodsky illuminates a new way to look at how work is divided in a household. Though most of the advice is geared towards married couples with children, it’s also helpful for non-traditional families or people with roommates.
Whether you’re in a partnership or single, I hope you’ll connect with one of these titles. Marriage might not be for everyone, but everyone deserves to experience love in any of its forms.
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